Where does lack of sex
In the opinion of specialists sexologists and psychologists, lack of sexual satisfaction in female body produces excessive male hormones, appears excess fat and overweight, the skin darkens and becomes coarser.
Possible strengthening of menstrual pain and the onset of menopause feel acute discomfort. Appears fatigue caused by dilution of sexual relations with their partner or their absence. The woman, in contrast to the representatives of the “strong sex”, began to enjoy sex in its full splendor especially after 30 years – the peak of female sexuality is between 35-40 years or more. Even when a young woman was a strong attraction of private life, the true mark of sex woman reached adulthood.
Mature woman often does not pay much attention to their sexual needs, trying to do all the household chores.
But to argue with physiology is meaningless. The uterus is an organ that needs frequent massage and muscle movements caused precisely during intimate relations.
Psychologists say that female sexuality can be divided mainly into two types:
- First similar to men – in which a woman is constantly looking for sex and
- Second, where the lack of sex leads to loss of interest.
But in both types of female sexuality in itself accumulates sexual energy that over time began pushing against and seeks to unload.
Of course, the sexual energy builds in men, too.
Shortage of intimate life leads to that on a subconscious level in women appears hyperactivity and she tries to gather the fragile shoulders a huge amount of problems solving and more and more responsibilities. Itself creates additional work brings it to fatigue and stress. But even when her powers are on the verge of his body looking for her. Wishful thinking in this case does not help.
Man experiencing sexual frustration can “turn mountains” (but most often leads to sexual gratification through masturbation, of course).
The woman can not sublimate their sexual energy and work themselves into so can lead to a nervous breakdown and become painful distracted.
Often in such a situation is reached in family life when he was already relatively settled and calm children grow or have grown, no complex life problems to solve. Then appear sexual problems. Perhaps the simplest explanation is that the relationship between the spouses go to another level – the spouses have become very close, which on one hand is not bad, but on the other hand, the closest people somehow do not predispose to arousal. Foreign is always interesting.
There is no room for reconciliation with a similar situation. The woman has to find time to devote to yourself and forget, at least for a short domestic concerns and obligations. The man, of course, should not prevent this to happen. Enough for two hours the woman to indulge their erotic fantasies or to deal with something that cause similar feelings in her husband.
Not worth enough to sexually away in the family, no matter what reasons. Few people can afford to live a double life and that to feel better. The more the woman away from the sex, the more deteriorated relationship with her husband and it becomes a vicious circle that can lead to family breakdown.
And – the increase of sexual closeness leads to the refreshment of life together, not only sexually, but in all the other aspects.
Not require extraordinary effort to do so – it is enough woman for example seek erotic movies of your choice to view your partner to embody role of erotic her (or his) fantasies make him/her or ask him/her for erotic massage… its success is virtually guaranteed – it maybe just that and wait. Sexologists and psychologists do not consider objectionable or treason, even if the partners move up your imagination and imagine that love with the idol of his erotic fantasies during sex with their permanent partner.
If, for one reason or another woman is no possibility of joint intimate life, it is better to satisfy their sexual needs through masturbation. This will help to overcome the temporary solitude, to maintain a sexual tone and more – to get to know better their needs and desires. And the appearance of the partner she will be ready to resume intimacy without joint stress and difficulties.